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If you are planning a baptism, here are some things to consider:
Godparents
16 years of age
Appointed by the parents, guardians or parish priest
A baptized Roman Catholic who has been confirmed and received Holy Communion
In good standing with the Catholic Church (for example, if married, was married before a priest or deacon, is not cohabiting outside of marriage).
Is not the biological father or mother of the child to be baptized
One male or one female sponsor or one of each
Is regularly participating in the life of the Roman Catholic Church thru attendance at Sunday Mass
Non-Catholic Christians may participate in the Catholic rites of Baptism, but they cannot offer the guarantees required of the Godparent, so they are referred to as "Christian witnesses." Those guarantees involve a commitment to foster the faith received by the child from the Church at Baptism. Non-baptized individuals cannot serve as a godparent or witness to the baptism
The Role of the Godparents
Pray for the godchild regularly
Set an example of Christian living
Help the godchild to grow in the faith of God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit in whose life he or she was baptized
Give every encouragement to follow Christ
Help the godchild to look forward to Confirmation and, ideally, to be the Confirmation sponsor.
How to Choose the Godparents
Look for active, faith-filled Catholics
Admire their faith first over the value of their friendship
Keep your child's faith first and the feelings of others second
Be honest: half-hearted faith yields half-hearted godparents
Set the bar of expectations high for your child's sake
Consider if the godparents will be a part of your child's life 25 years from now
Don't rush it; pray and give it time